What Others Are Saying

"Inner dialogue- I did not know I had one until I met Travis. I was carrying a lot of childhood guilt and baggage, and he helped me be aware of it and how to overcome it and not let it control or define me. He was an answer to prayer from God. It’s not easy for men to get in touch with our feelings, much less talk about them, but he made it easy, which was relieving. Hey guys, it’s okay to talk to someone. Thank you, Travis."   

Scott

"I reached out for guidance with my adult autistic son, who is very high functioning but has anxiety and social awkwardness issues. Travis has been supportive and compassionate and has formed a genuine interest and trusting relationship with my son. He coaches him, role-plays, and challenges my son in many ways for successful results. I could not ask for a better person to help my son build his confidence so he can thrive and succeed in his personal life and career. I am one happy mother." 

D. Gage

“Travis helped me understand that the voices of negativity and self-doubt only have the power I give them. Now, if I feel lonely and notice anxiety, low self-esteem, lust, jealousy, or fear creeping into my mental realm, I can call them out, learn why they’re there, and cast them out. More than anything, Travis reminded me that even in hard times, I have a wonderful life full of friends and good experiences, and I can’t let anything get in the way of seeing that. In Travis, I found a confidant and a teacher, but also a friend.”   

Jim

Challenged My Thoughts

"Meeting and speaking with Travis has been life-changing. He has guided me to bring awareness to my daily life. His personable demeanor is calming, and his insight is razor-sharp. He challenges my thoughts and patterns, which can be frustrating but also hilarious as we discover the themes of dissonance in my story. I sought out a therapist and found a friend."

Mark M.

Not Ruled by the Chaos

My oldest daughter has been struggling with mental illness, and we have struggled to get her the help she needed. It has been painful to watch my daughter’s life spiral out of control and see the toll it has taken on my family. Travis and Regenea helped me to know that I was not to blame for my daughter’s choices and that I was fulfilling my duties as her mother in trying to help her recover. They helped me understand the value of self-care and having a life not defined by the chaos our family is living through.

MW

"I spent years trying to cope with terrible anxiety. I took meds, I went to therapy, and still, I struggled. I felt stuck in life as if nothing would ever change. Then, I found Travis and Be The Firefly and came to a new understanding of my core beliefs and the words I speak to myself. I wasn't even aware of how destructive my core beliefs were. Now, I live in a freedom I thought I'd never experience."

Amanda S.

"I used to worry constantly about what others thought about me. I have always been the typical man: don't cry, don't talk about your feelings, and don't ask for help. It was when my job was feeling like a dead-end, and my marriage was on rocky ground, that I finally reached out for help. Travis has shown me the power of vulnerability and, most of all, the process of overcoming the constant feelings that I was never enough for anyone. Thanks, brother."

John P.