OUR STORY
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We Believe
Every human soul is driven to desire belonging, love, and purpose. When they have those, anything is possible.
We Believe
Relationships are their healthiest when both people experience feeling heard, valued, and understood.
We Believe
YOU always have the internal power to discover your limitless potential and step into a life of MORE.
Hi, I'm Travis
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I am the co-founder (along with my wife) of Be The Firefly Transformational Life & Mindset Coaching, and I’m so glad you’re here. For over 20 years, I’ve dedicated my life to helping people break free from what holds them back and step boldly into who they’re meant to be.
I specialize in helping individuals who feel stuck in life—especially those struggling with past trauma, low self-worth, anxiety, and difficulty in relationships. Why is this my passion? Because I have been there, in all of those areas. I know what it is like to want MORE out of life, while feeling like you will never get there.
My credentials:
* Master of Arts, Professional Counseling, Amberton U. 2006
* Professional Life Coach and Freedom Coach
* Over 3000 hours in the study of the mind and how we think
* Creator of the I AM Theory and the B.E.A.C.H. Flow Mindset coaching methodology
* Published author of Amazon bestseller, We Are All Fireflies
* I am currently working towards additional certification as an Integrative Health and Functional Medicine Coach to help others better understand the mind-body connection to living a life of MORE.
* I enjoy writing, helping others, collecting moments, and spending time with family and friends (and our dogs), traveling, and the outdoors.
Hi, I'm Regenea
I am the co-founder (along with my husband) of Be The Firefly Transformational Life & Mindset Coaching. I am honored that you are here. For most of my life, I have had a passion for helping others discover and embrace their best selves.
Travis and I were foster parents for seven years and were blessed to have 27 different girls live with us. Many years later, we are still family to most of them. We followed that up with the seven-year adventure of being boarding parents to over 100 different boys from 15 countries.
I am in my 17th year of working with international students, and I still help lead the program, where we were boarding parents. Desiring to join my husband in helping people, often at their greatest point of need, I got the training and certification to become a Transformational Life Coach. I am currently working toward additional Life and Mindset coaching certifications in order to better serve those we are blessed to connect with.
I really enjoy working with women and teens. When not loving on others, I find great joy in being a mom to two amazing adult children, and enjoying the outdoors and traveling with my family.Â
Your Keys to Freedom
(Based on The I AM Theory)
🔥 Key 1: Declaration
Our choices reflect the internal “I AM” statements we repeat and believe.
🌱 Key 2: Roots
Past experiences, fears, beliefs, and unresolved emotions shape our self-declarations.
🔄 Key 3: Habit
The brain forms habits out of repeated thoughts—empowering or limiting—because it's wired for efficiency.
đź’» Key 4: Processor
Like a computer, the brain simply processes input and doesn’t judge whether it's positive or negative.
🤖 Key 5: Autopilot
Our subconscious often makes decisions before we’re aware, using old patterns as its guide.
⚠️ Key 6: Bias
We are biologically wired to notice the negative first—but we can choose to rise above it.
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Your Keys to Freedom
 (Based on The I AM Theory)
🧠Key 7: Rewire
Neuroplasticity gives us the power to reshape our minds and build new thought patterns.
🗂️ Key 8: Tabs
Unresolved emotions become “open tabs” in our subconscious, quietly draining our energy until addressed.
🧯 Key 9: Drain
These open tabs consume mental bandwidth, creating stress, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion.
🎞️ Key 10: Replay
Painful memories and emotions can be triggered and re-lived until we intentionally reframe and release them.
🗣️ Key 11: Language
The words we speak to ourselves shape how we think, feel, and experience the world around us.
đź’Ž Key 12: Identity
Empowering “I AM” statements like “I am enough” or “I am loved” build a strong and resilient identity
Core Beliefs & Relevance
* Our core beliefs are nurtured by our memories and experiences.Â
* Our thoughts, feelings, emotions, and choices align with our core beliefs. Balance or chaos in one usually means the same in the other.
* A sense of relevance is a core desire of all humans. We all long to feel connected.
* A healthy sense of relevance is rooted in how well we feel heard, valued, and understood. This is paramount to healthy relationships.
* The need for belonging, love, and purpose are core to who we are. They are a foundation of strong connections to others.
* Our potential in life is greatly dependent upon how well we sense our experiences in the three areas of the triad (to the right).
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B.E.A.C.H. Flow Mindset IP
Our process for helping you illuminate your limitless potential and step into a life of MORE.
YOUR PATH TO:
* EXPERIENCING FREEDOM FROM PAST PAIN, CORE FEARS, OR TRAUMA
* MORE CLARITY
* LESS STRESS & ANXIETY
* A STRONGER AND MORE POSITIVE SENSE OF SELF
* MORE RESILIENT MENTAL HEALTH
* HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS
* BETTER COMMUNICATION
* MORE PEACE AND JOY
* A GREATER SENSE OF PURPOSE AND MEANING IN LIFE
Testimonials
Let Others Inspire You.
"I spent years trying to cope with terrible anxiety. I took meds, I went to therapy, and still, I struggled. I felt stuck in life as if nothing would ever change. Then, I found Travis and Be The Firefly and came to a new understanding of my core beliefs and the words I speak to myself. I wasn't even aware of how destructive my core beliefs were. Now, I live in a freedom I thought I'd never experience."
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Amanda S.
"I used to worry constantly about what others thought about me. I have always been the typical man: don't cry, don't talk about your feelings, and don't ask for help. It was when my job was feeling like a dead-end, and my marriage was on rocky ground, that I finally reached out for help. Travis has shown me the power of vulnerability and, most of all, the process of overcoming the constant feelings that I was never enough for anyone. Thanks, brother."
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